Collaborative Decision Making
Napoleon is reputed
to have said, “Nothing is more difficult and therefore more precious, than the
ability to decide” (Evans, 2009). Decisions are part of our everyday life, from
waking up to what to eat. Every single person is faced with making many types
of decision; some are hard and some easy. No decision is the same and some
carry unpleasant consequences. The Wharton text outlines specific frames, which
are the combination of the beliefs, values, and attitudes we use when we make
decisions (Hoch, Kunreuther & Gunther, 2001). These frames impact our
decision making process and understand of situations. By understanding and
analyzing these frames we can become better decision makers. Being patient and
seeing the options from different perspective will aid in the decision making
process. President Dwight D. Eisenhower evidently once said: ‘the most urgent
decisions are rarely the most important one’s (Krogerus, 2012, p. 10). As
leaders, we must be able to prioritized, situate and make decisions at the right
level.
Many hard-hitting
decisions are not made alone. Getting stakeholders involved in the decision
process is an essential part of leadership. Creating an environment where
collaboration is encouraged also is extremely important. Brown (2011), suggests
that collaboration is not automatically happening, but it is possible with the
use of team development techniques. Developing a team to depend on
collaboration can help you make a better decision.
A specific situation
where I was faced with a difficult decision was when I selected my next duty
assignment. Even though this could essentially be an easy decision, it turned
out to be a challenge. I was deployed and away from my family in a totally
different time zone. My decision had to take into consideration my career and
family. I was lucky enough to have great mentors that I could ask for advice
and relay the information to my wife. I took a systematic process to my
decision-making. I looked at the pros and cons of the decision and compared
them with the choices presented to make the best logical decision. In the end,
the decision to move to Tennessee was the best choice I could of made. The help
that I received from my family and stakeholders made the decision process
painless.
This experience
helped me grow as a leader. I was able to utilize my resources to come with an
efficient and effectual decision. Some of the takeaways from this experience
are 1) Be patient and ask for help, 2) ask someone with more experience about
their decisions and how they went about making the decision, 3) look for
outside stakeholders for support, 4) be transparent to your stakeholders, and
5) pay forward what you learned to others in the future.
I was able to achieve
my objective because I had stakeholders that care about my career and wanted to
see me succeed. Bringing my family into the decision making process made me see
the options from a different perspective. Looking back at my decision I made I
can say there is little I could of done better with the situation I was in.
Because I was deployed, I could not travel to the location I was being offered
to make sure this is where I wanted to end up. I did, however, learn many
things that will help me in the future. Currently, in about six months I will
be faced with the same situation of changing my duty station. There are three
things that I have already changed for my upcoming decision. One, don’t cut
yourself short; see what’s available. Two, don’t be afraid to ask the hard
questions; I was timid and scared to ask a question in my last experience that
may have restricted possibilities. Finally, do what is right for your family
and your career. Decisions are not easy, but there is always a right and a
wrong one. I understand this clearly and ready to take charge of my future, no
matter the consequences.
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Brown,
Donald R (2011-01-11). Experiential Approach to Organization Development (8th
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Hoch,
S.J., & Kunreuther, H.C. (2005). Wharton on making decisions. (1st
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M., & Tschappeler, R. (2012). The decision book: Fifty models for strategic
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